How are you doing, really?

Menopause coaching from a nurse of 25 years, in Ayr and online. Time to be heard, plain answers, and a clear plan to take to your GP.

Registered nurse

More than 25 years in the NHS, now working as a coach.

Time to talk

Sixty-minute sessions, not ten-minute appointments.

Ready for your GP

Leave with clear notes and the questions to ask.

Ways to work with me

Everything starts with a free conversation. Nothing is booked until you’re sure.

  • A free first chat

    Anyone wondering whether coaching could help.

    Length
    15 minutes
    Format
    Phone or video call
    Price
    Free
    Book your free chat — A free first chat
  • The 90-Day Programme

    Women who want closer support over three months.

    Includes: A symptom summary and priority questions for your GP, weekday message support, and a follow-up call 30 days after we finish.

    Length
    A 90-minute first session, then five 60-minute sessions, one a fortnight
    Format
    In person in Ayr or online by Zoom
    Price
    From £995
    Register your interest — The 90-Day Programme

Does any of this sound familiar?

  • You’ve been told it’s part of getting older, and you know it isn’t that simple.
  • You don’t feel like yourself, and you can’t explain why to the people around you.
  • You’re sleeping badly, losing words mid-sentence, and running on empty.
  • You’ve read everything online and feel more confused than when you started.
  • You had ten minutes with your GP and left without the answers you went in for.

You deserve better than “it’s a phase”

What you may have been told

  • “It’s part of ageing.”
  • “Have you tried CBT?”
  • “You look tired.”

What happens here

  • Your symptoms are taken seriously and explained in plain language.
  • You get information you can trust, and help sorting it from the noise.
  • You work out what you need, and the words to ask for it.

How it works

  1. We talk

    A free 15-minute chat about how you’re doing. If coaching isn’t right for you, I’ll say so, and suggest where else to turn.

  2. We make a plan

    In our first session, we look at what’s affecting you most and agree one small, realistic step.

  3. I support you

    We meet regularly, adjust as we go, and prepare clear notes for your next GP appointment.

About Alex

I’ve spent more than 25 years as a nurse, in NHS health visiting and paediatric nursing. Coaching lets me give women what a busy system rarely can: time.

I’ve lived with surgical menopause for more than five years. I know what it is not to feel like yourself, and how much a clear explanation can change.

My coaching is non-clinical. I don’t diagnose or prescribe, and your GP stays in charge of your medical care. What I bring is time, reliable information and a nurse’s understanding of how to get the most from an appointment.

Training and qualifications

  • Registered Nurse (NMC)
  • BNurs (Hons) Nursing Studies
  • BSc (Hons) Community Nursing
  • Intermediate Certificate in Health and Wellbeing Coaching (PCI accredited, UKIHCA CPD approved)
  • Newson Health Menopause Masterclass
  • Completing Practitioner I accreditation with Peak Health Coaching and UKIHCA

Based in Ayr. In person in Ayr and surrounding areas, or online wherever you are.

Common questions

You’re a nurse. Can you give me medical advice?

Not in our sessions. As a coach, I don’t diagnose, prescribe or advise on medication or HRT, and your GP stays in charge of your care. I can help you prepare the questions to take to them.

Do I need a diagnosis first?

No. Whether you’re in perimenopause, menopause or not sure yet, we start with how you’re feeling now.

Can we meet in person?

Yes, in Ayr and surrounding areas, including walk-and-talk sessions outdoors. Or online by Zoom, if you’d rather stay at home.

What does a founding place ask of me?

A short feedback form at the end of six weeks. With your permission, I may share your words on this site, credited however you choose or anonymously.

How do I pay?

The founding programme is paid in full before your first session.

What if I need to cancel?

Give me 24 hours’ notice and we’ll rearrange at no cost. Sessions cancelled with less notice may be lost, unless it’s an emergency.

Is what I tell you confidential?

Yes. The only exceptions are if you agree to share something, if the law requires it, or if I’m seriously worried about someone’s safety.

Send me a message

Ask anything, or tell me a little about how you’re doing. I’ll reply personally.

Start with fifteen minutes

A free chat by phone or video, with no commitment. By the end, you’ll know whether coaching is right for you.